Gentleman

She sometimes likes everything to be gentle and smooth,

Other times she wishes things to be bold and stormy;

 

All you need is a little patience to understand her,

Without questioning her character and her ideas of life,

Without rooting out hope and trust you once placed;

 

At the same time getting through moments of her rudeness and immaturity,

Without annihilating the beautiful definition of her soul in your heart,

Believing in her and providing space to let her grow herself;

 

Being curious always to understand her,

And sensitive always to feel her

Is not being weak but a smart and real Man;

 

Fall in love with her because she is effortless in being herself’

Fall in love with her because she causes hurricanes of thoughts in your mind;

 

Cherish the unanswerable beautiful questions your thoughts place when you try to understand her;

Cherish the ideas of being curious even when you believe you would never understand her deeply,

 

That’s the thing about being a True Gentleman.

My Story

No Guts,

No Glory,

Just A Caring Gentleman,

With A Priceless Story ;

Misandry In The Name Of Feminism

“I don’t talk about men because I’m a feminist.”

I actually heard a lady say this about a week ago and I was astounded and more importantly depressed. Since when did feminism become a reason to not acknowledge the male folk?

But guess what I am really getting used to such things these days. Statements like  ‘Men are trash’ ; ‘All men are same’ ; ‘Never trust a man’ have been commonly said that even men accept it with enthusiasm. I really understand many women have been hurt in past in the ways which at times reflect inhumanity and in the ways that cannot be even imagined , by men but still even then – ‘ Does developing such kind of image or thoughts which attack the whole of male society will do any good ? ‘ ; ‘ Is developing such strong yet so lame views about whole of the male society and labeling every man as trash going to do any good ?’

“The cost of neglecting your emotional well-being in exchange for misandry cannot build or secure a healthy union.” 

– Quoted By A Famous Writer

First and foremost let me be very clear a that I in no terms against feminism or promoting misogyny but I support it in its right meaning.

Therefore let me state the definition of feminism as quoted by Google :

As stated above by an online dictionary, feminism is the advocacy of women’s rights ON THE GROUND OF EQUALITY. Feminism is in its true  essence the advocacy of equality of both genders, not just the advocacy of superiority of any gender in any way whatsoever.

To add to this let me even tell you about the term misandry :-

As stated it seems very clear that the idea of feminism being promoted these days is more of somewhat related to Misandry and is in no way connected to Feminism.

Let me very certainly tell you that if the case worsen the day is no far when

Men will have to fight for their own right.

It is certainly evident that feminism has indeed lost its primary purpose and is allowing people to take advantage of it. In in some cases the distorted definition of feminism can be seen as being used as an umbrella by so-called feminists advocating male hatred in the society.

We all do know how Communism and Marxism which were aimed that advocating equal rights in the community and promoting equality between the labour-Owner class respectively change to movements promoting oppression of the higher class of the society destroying the root goal these movements were  based on. If the current scenario of increasing male hatred and male bashing not tackled with an immediate action the results are going to be really bad for the male community just as what communism and Marxism resulted into.

I do not wear the feminist tag but I believe in equality for both genders. I believe a woman has the right to get a job based on her qualifications and experience. I believe a woman has the right to inherit her late father’s properties. I believe that the girl child deserves an education as much as the boy child. I even feel that all of us in this 21st century should follow and advocate the concept of feminism in its true essence and do away with the idea of misandry as soon as possible.

 

 

 

 

Just Quoted

Just Be Sure To Grab What’s Yours !

Holi ‘ The Poets Way’

​A Day’s Canvas — A Riot Of Colors ,

A Festival Of Joy — Makes Us Forget All Dolor ;

Red , Blue , Yellow and Greens ,

Rainbow Of Colors — Mesmerizing All Scenes ;

Rejoice It’s Holi — ‘The Celebration Of Colors and An Auspicious Day.’ ,

Happy Holi Fellas ‘The Poets Way’ 

Life In Color

I Am Doing My Best 

To Find Some Kind Of Glow ,

Not Trying Just To Go With The Flow;
I’m Givin’ It All My Soul And My Heart,

Trying To Do Not All But Atleast My Part ;
Well , This Is Life In Colour ,

Today Feels Like No Other ;
This Is Life in Motion ,

Still Always Calm And Smooth Like An Ocean.

Hazy Secrets

Let The Smoke Haze All Of My Secrets ,

For I Have More To Hide Than To Express ;
Let These Whiffs Tell You A Few Amazing Life Stories , 

For I Am More An Epitome Of Living Than Of Just Existing ; 

Beating Magic

When You Feel Your’re Running Out Of Luck

 And Nothing Seems To Be Right 

Things Seem To Be Drifting Away 

With Failure Trying To Break You Apart To Pieces 

And Control Slipping Off From Your Hands ;
Remember There’s A Beating Magic Inside That Skin Of Yours 

A Red Spark Flowing Through Your Veins 

A Light Trying To Unleash Itself 

And A Never Dying Spirit Trying To Escape Off 

That Prison Of Your Defeated Thoughts 

Raise Yourself Above Your Defeats 

Don’t Let Them Be Contained ;
Respect That Spark For It Still Has You Connected To Your Ultimate Dream 

Keep Joining The Dots 

You See There’s A World Beyond Doubt 

A World Beyond Pain And Vain ;
So Start Making Way For Your Story Of Success And Wins 

For Who Knows What Life Might Come Up With 

For Who Knows Your Story Might Become The Greatest Of All ;

From The Novel (In Making)

I was always attracted to you since the first day I saw you sitting in the auditorium lost somewhere. I still have those glimpse of your first look in my eyes.

I remember to have stalked you that day for so long.

Since then I neverhave lost a single chance my life threw to get a view of you.

Everytime I look at I am lost and then when I recover I don’t have any memory of the moment.

I have always boasted ‘I can read people in just a look.’ But when it comes to you , you become the case of Bella Swan  to Edward Cullen in Twilight. I have tried reading but then I just forget everything happening while I am looking at you.

Show Goes On

Sorrows, Worries And Dismays ,

Pain And Sufferings ,

Are All Parts Of Life ,

Like Happiness, Goodness 

And Pleasures Are Too ,

Life Still Goes On ,

So Celebrate Everything ,

Cause They All Make You Strong.